Hey guys, So as promised in the other thread, I'm updating you all on my very first date ever . It was AWESOME!!! He's just so amazing and understanding and cute and sweet and amazing . I had a huge panic attack just before meeting him, but as soon as we met, we just somehow... clicked, and all my anxiety went away. Silence wasn't awkward, and we just seem to be on the same page on everything. Mission: Accomplished Next Mission: Kiss him on the second date
Congratulations! I knew you could do it. ---------- Post added 5th Jun 2013 at 02:45 PM ---------- I won't even ask about the mission for the third date. Not after all that talk about condoms a couple of weeks ago...:badgrin:
That's neat, because I didn't think I could do it at all! Haha, thanks for having faith in me (*hug*). I almost decided to not show up, but I'm SO glad I got the balls to stay and finally meet him . Haha, well you can never be too careful! :icon_bigg Realistically, I'll probably save stuff like that until the fourth date :icon_bigg. Thanks . Thanks! (*hug*)
Thank you . Totally hope you're right! Who knows, I might not have to look any further - he might just be the one . Thanks . No kidding! It's the difference between night and day - I truly feel alive now . Everything before this day seems relatively grey in comparison, haha. This day is tied with the day I got accepted to McMaster for health sci for most awesome, favourite day ever .
Sounds super exciting! Very nice, glad everything went the way you wanted The second date should be fun
I'm sure you know this, but just let things progress naturally =) There's nothing wrong with asking for permission for a kiss or hug, though, believe me.
Thanks . Indeed it shall . Any second date tips? The problem with that though is if I ask if I can kiss him, I take a risk that he might say no, and then I'll look like an idiot . any tips for circumventing that phenomenon? (*hug*)
Er... I asked my 'ex-boyfriend' if I could hug him twice when we were still 'together'. He said no both times. Another time, I hugged him and he was as stiff as a board, no reciprocation. I felt like a fool. Long story short, that is basically why we broke up. He couldn't offer me anything besides... holding hands rarely. We were friends — good friends — but we were, in essence, not boyfriends at all. Most people would reciprocate a hug. If he turns down a kiss, it still exists as a possibility in the future. Don't worry about it =) My experiences with guys 'til now have been... not usual.
I would do the kiss if it totally feels right. It's all about body language, touch, and eye contact. If those check off, you're good to go buddy! And that's awesome about your date! My first date was pretty lackluster... haha but I'm not giving up yet.
Hey guys, thatnks for all the amazing responses! On another related note, I JUST CAME OUT!!! You can read about it at my post here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/coming-out-advice/96905-i-came-out.html#post1516893
