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unsure of attraction

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by mind racer, Nov 22, 2014.

  1. mind racer

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    Location:
    texas
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight but curious
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    Not sure this is the place but needed to try.
    Please accept my apology in advance should it become necessary.

    Recently I have found my self very attracted to transgender or post op men.
    The more female they look the more attracted I am.
    The thought of being with a women who is a full function male excites me more than just physically.
    I've never been interested in men so this is where my confliction is on my interest lately.

    I welcome any insight or advice.
     
  2. jay777

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    You might have a look here:
    http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/148680-transsexuality.html#20

    people are usually attracted by their femininity... they identify as women... and many see themselves in that role...

    I'd say it would be a good thing to see them as individuals with needs like every human being and to be treated with respect like everyone else... and not as fetish objects...
     
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  3. mangotree

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    You'd be surprised how common your attraction is.
    FYI, I think you're actually talking about trans-women (MTF) rather than a trans-men (FTM). And as the previous poster suggested, just treat them like women and you'll be fine.