Not sure this is the place but needed to try. Please accept my apology in advance should it become necessary. Recently I have found my self very attracted to transgender or post op men. The more female they look the more attracted I am. The thought of being with a women who is a full function male excites me more than just physically. I've never been interested in men so this is where my confliction is on my interest lately. I welcome any insight or advice.
You might have a look here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/148680-transsexuality.html#20 people are usually attracted by their femininity... they identify as women... and many see themselves in that role... I'd say it would be a good thing to see them as individuals with needs like every human being and to be treated with respect like everyone else... and not as fetish objects...
You'd be surprised how common your attraction is. FYI, I think you're actually talking about trans-women (MTF) rather than a trans-men (FTM). And as the previous poster suggested, just treat them like women and you'll be fine.