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Have you taken the BIG step? (Anal sex)

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by KrisBrooks, Jan 22, 2012.

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  1. KrisBrooks

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    I was curious as to how many people here have actually taken that step, and had anal sex?
     
    #1 KrisBrooks, Jan 22, 2012
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    #3 Revan, Jan 22, 2012
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  5. KrisBrooks

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    I've done everything but anal, sort of anxious. How was it for you?
     
    #5 KrisBrooks, Jan 22, 2012
  6. TheEdend

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    Anal sex, just like any other sexual act, is different for everyone. Some like it, some love it and some don't care for it too much. It all really depends on who you do it with and how much you prepare for it.

    Whatever you do always, ALWAYS use protection. You don't want one single decision to ruin the rest of your life.

    There are some great resources on EC that you can read in order to be prepared.

    Empty Closets - Anal Sex

    Empty Closets - Gay Safe Sex
     
    #6 TheEdend, Jan 22, 2012
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    I want to, but nobody else wants to with me...
     
    #7 Zontar, Jan 22, 2012
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    that step was taken for me. i didnt like it. maybe now its different? who knows.
     
    #8 javgier, Jan 22, 2012
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    I have given anal sex and experimented when alone, but I have not yet been on the receiving end with my boyfriend. :] Hope to try it someday soon.
     
    #9 seeksanctuary, Jan 22, 2012
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    Nope, I'm still fairly untouched
     
    #10 Mlpguy88, Jan 22, 2012
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    Nope. I don't find it appealing at all. Although I would do it if I had a boyfriend and he wanted to.
     
    #11 duriru, Jan 22, 2012
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    I did, can't even count them anymore :icon_redf
     
    #12 Mister Gaga, Jan 23, 2012
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    As a younger man on the receiving end, I never cared much for it, as I got older and met some guys who knew what they were doing, I found it can be alot of fun.

    OP and everyone else, be careful please, even with protection, eat right and take care of your bodies.
     
    #13 stuwee, Jan 24, 2012
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    I have on tried on two occasions and the experience was radically different in both cases. The first time was with a semi-abusive guy and it was painful and turned me off anal for quite some time. The second time was a great pleasurable experience.

    My personal experience has led me to believe that whether it is enjoyable or painful/bad depends on how patient/caring/experienced the other person is and I probably won't do it again unless I am in a relationship.
     
    #14 Eternalmisfit, Jan 24, 2012
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    No, but I'm hoping to change that soon.
     
    #15 b0i70y, Jan 24, 2012
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    Eew! no! never!!!
     
    #16 SweetGirl28, Jan 25, 2012
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    I'm pretty sure that if a guy asks me if I want to take the big step with him, I'd be assuming he means marriage, not anal sex :lol:

    But no, I have not taken the big step in either of those meanings :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #17 Filip, Jan 26, 2012
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    I have, only a few times and only liked it once.
     
    #18 malachite, Jan 26, 2012
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    Not yet, still a virgin, But maybe when I'm older.
     
    #19 Mimerio, Jan 26, 2012
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    Nope! That's for the life partner!
     
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