I've made a post before about how I liked sex with guys but I didn't find them attractive. Since that post I have kinda progressed but not really. I met this guy and he came over when my parents were gone. He was out and I knew that, he sat opposite me and we cracked a few beers, played xbox and had a generally normal night as friends. He went off, I can't remember why but he left his bag, it was sorta open so i took a look, inside he had lube and condoms. This got me slightly horny but I was kinda worried as he is in my friend group and I'm not sure if he would tell. But things went on and we went down on each other and eventually had sex. Afterwards he stayed over and we kissed and cuddled and it was romantic. We slept together in my double bed and he woke me up with a kiss. I absoluetly loved it and we continued on this way for another few days (as my parents are on holiday and I'm home alone) We would cuddle and kiss and be sweet, play xbox and do the normal stuff and then we would finish the night with the best sex I have ever had.. I have feelings for him and I love the sex but when he decided to go home I tried to watch gay porn or even look at guys the way I look at girls but it just didn't work. What's wrong with me?
There's nothing wrong with you man! and to be honest, if you had feelings for him and when you said it was romantic, yeah you're gay.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are aroused by someone for whom you have feelings (call them romantic if you will). There's a word for this: demi-sexual, but instead of labels, just think that the reason you enjoy his company, in all dimensions (sexual and romantic) is because it's him! No need to go beyond that if you absolutely have to explain this to yourself or others.
I don't know if I want to be, like, I had feelings for him when we had sex every night but I don't feel that way about guys in general:bang: ---------- Post added 8th Nov 2013 at 09:03 PM ---------- So what now? do i date him? have him over again?
Who dates "guys in general"? I tend to date one guy at a time... I invite you to read the threads from Rarareva and therunawaybff: same situation, "straight" guys who've fallen in love...
Here's a link to Rarareva's epic thread (warning: much to read!) http://emptyclosets.com/forum/coming-out-advice/96608-i-asked-my-roommate-if-hes-gay.html And here's the one who loves Nick: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/family-friends-relationships/86584-moving-together-couple.html
If you enjoy his company and have feelings for him, then just roll with it and see where it goes. This person is just someone that you've taken a liking to. You don't really have to label yourself yet.
