hi all, just to jump right into it, i am in a very confused state. Yes, i am still trying to figure myself out. i cant really say i dnt like guys or girls cause I have never dated period. I can't really word out what i need help with but it would be really helpful if anyone couldwalk me through how they dealt with their confussion (if they went through that) or just general advice and tips. i feel like such a mess mentally as i am constantly thinking about this.
Hi AfricanFlower, welcome to EC. You can messeges me in my wall if you want to talk, and express more about how you feel.
Here are a few hints concerning communication: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/lgbt-later-life/166815-supportive-community-but.html#6 You might have a look here: Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender? There is romantic and sexual attraction... and you don't ncessarily have to sleep with someone to know... straight people know regardless, for example... I'd say take your time... and welcome... keep asking questions, people will help you... (&&&)
thank you so much, i am looking foward to interacting with you all. One question, I cant really post messages on people's walls, how do i do that?
You need to have 10 posts on threads before you can make wall messages. This is so that people can get an impression of you. Just look up a few threads, and add a few messages... posting in games and fun does not count... and add a few postings here... (*hug*)
hey nice to meet you africanFlower! I'm very familiar with confusion myself... it's been a process to get to wherever I'm at right now. Take it easy, read through the forum posts, and don't be afraid to reach out! (*hug*)
thanks ... it just gets really annoying trying to figure everything out, was hoping i could get the answer immediately (i know its not possible). and i cant even mention the number of quizzes i took, youtube videos i watched and the likes. #mentally Exhausted
Like Jay777 mentioned, it'd be really worth looking into the Support/Advice area on the site so that you can be helped even further. Welcome! :welcome: :smilewave
