I'm new to the lesbian dating world...I had my first girlfriend, had my heart broken, etc etc. I guess my trouble comes from how to tell if someone I like is also gay! I've never had the best gaydar, and I can't just outright say "are you gay?" It's all so tricky/complicated! Any advice?
I think possibly going to LGBT community events or if you are of legal age, going to clubs or bars specifically for lesbians, going online on dating sites.
I have the same problem, but I think the suggestions from Blossom85 are good. I intend to go to the local gay bar on lesbian night and see what it's like.
You might have a look at this: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/sexual-romantic-orientation/146045-flirting.html#6 and at this: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/149549-please-share-your-experience-internet-dating.html#18 (*hug*)